It's been 8 years since I went through boot camp and I'm still looking. Learned a long time ago that if she can't take you for who you are (meaning isn't always trying to change you in some form or fashion), then she's not worth your time. Hence why I'm still single myself and haven't dated in over 2 years. Wish I'd learned this lesson a long time ago, took a lot of pain to figure it out. Good luck in boot camp.