Ok so, I know I'm reviving a dead thread here, but I didn't want to start a new thread. Especially when I am the one who started this one in the first place.
Now, I've taken all of your suggestions and the only thing I haven't tried is getting the alternator rewound. I still haven't found a shop around my house willing to do that for some reason. Maybe I'm not asking correctly, I don't know. I also haven't replaced the alternator with a HD one, I'm really not that mechanically inclined, although I would love to be. I've replaced the wires with 4 and even tried 0 gauge wire at one point, still dimming. I was considering getting another battery for just my sound system, but I don't really have anywhere to put an extra battery, other than the bed, and I don't really want to mount a battery in my bed.
I have a family owned shop where I could go. It's where my dad takes his car to get it worked on and he always has. I was considering taking my alternator up there and asking if he could rewind it for me, but he has always been kind of a dick to me for whatever reason.
Any other suggestions would be much appreciated. I don't know what is going on, maybe I'm just really lucky.